Tuesday, July 24, 2007

fold uR blanket...


i think i not really that type of person who will regularly do the clean up works of my room, fold my blanket every time i got up from my bed and even will always come 'sharp' and on time to a meeting.


ok la...don't spoil my own reputation so much...actually i did one...hahha...just the matter of make it more consistently mahh...


i think many of us find it quite often in our life daily life, right..?especially folding blanket for all the guys out there( oppss, feel like i will soon start an argument after stating this statement)...i don't know what others think la, but for me, why need to fold something that will last like....well maybe 2 - 3 hours?ya u know what i mean or not...?is like, it still gonna become as messy as today early morning when u just woke up right, no matter how nice u fold it... true?


perhaps this is one of the areas that i need to improve...and i definitely know that it's a good thing to fold uR blanket, but somehow...haiz...spirit of 'malas' bah...


see, in a small thing like this probably a lot of people won't put into concern...like what so big deal about it..?but not so on God's sight. God's Word stated clearly that everything that we do, we must do it all for the glory of God...

on the other word, excellent is what God want to see in us ...excellent means to aim for something with good quality...and 'good quality' can be very subjective in many others perspectives...as for me, excellent is an attitude, not merely defined as the final result or outcomes of uR effort...


many people nowadays care more about their destination rather than how they been to that place...with that mentality of 'as long as i reach my goal, how i go there is not a matter anymore'...imagine a group of runners racing without any rules...they cut lane, run through the padang instead of the running lane, tackle others while they running and do all difference kinds of things just make sure himself can stand on the plundit...do u still get excited about the champion of this game or not...?well i believe I'm more excited about the process la seriously...will be supper funny i guess... since everyone 'main buyuk'...this is not excellent all about...


so do everything with spirit of excellency, as for the glory of God...doesn't matter big things or little things in life...if God can entrusted u with little things (fold uR blanket), what makes u think that He will not entrusted u with BIG things...detail determined destiny, attitude of life is far more important than uR degree or uR intellectual...attitude is the key to uR successful life...


God called us to be excel in everything that we do.
y? because God himself is a God of excellent.

look at us...he make all of us so difference from others...and His plan for us far even greater...

thank you Lord...

Friday, July 13, 2007

who knows?


a lot of parents nowadays thought that if they have the financial advantage and strength to provide their children a perfect environment( best education, best Sunday school, best culture to adapt, best parenting technique from #1 best-sell parenting book writer), then they can assured that they children will have no doubt that to become someone who has a bright future, someone that can achieve great things later on in life.

however, there are still no guarantee of what kind of your children will become in the future.parent nowadays holding too much hope and expectation from their children, to the extend that to push their children to a stage where they can no longer have the right, or even ability to decide something in their life. everything included toys that they should play, type of instrument they should learn, sport to play, friends to hang out, etc. once again it is nothing wrong for wanting to give your children the best and speak words of wisdom into their life. on the other hand, even God himself had demonstrate giving the BEST to us( HE give His only son for the world). so what the thing that really matter here?

no one could decide what kind of life they should live, not their parent and not even God, for God has given us to freedom to choice, between what is right and wrong. example, in the book of genesis, God had prepared a perfect environment too (garden of Elden), however, it still can't change the fact that Adam and Eve fall by taking the forbidden fruit. i believe with all my heart that surely God had already know that this tragic day of all mankind will come to pass. but what is the key thing here. that is the freedom of choice that God given to us.

parent who heart broken for their children, sometime hold too much guilt to themselves that they are the one who cause all these mess in their family. but who can predict tomorrow, even parent already tried all their best to prevent it.

let your children grow in their own ways, as we started to let go and God will come into the picture. treat your children like the father in the parable of the 'prodigal son'. a heart that long for their children to turn back anytime and waited for them at the door will see the work of God's hand in their children life, as like the process of how God's turn the heart of the 'prodigal son' to come home. love and acceptance is what they needed most when they return home, and be careful for many times we react in a same way of the older brothers. as parent do their best and let God take the rest...

God is in control in any situation...