chinese new year

wow spending most of my time with my mom throughout my holiday...seriously i didn't expect would spend such a great time with her...i think is the best of my life...i want to continue with my previous topic which talk about quality time...according to a research done at America, the most influential people among youth at 1960 is parent, follow by teacher and spiritual leader...however, down to 2000, friends become the most influential people to teenage, follow by media, such as music, movie, and advertisements, and thirdly parent. praise God parent still somehow be in the part of the teenage of America...and unfortunately, spiritual leader drop form 3 to 17 among 20 different people the list...a real big chance after a 40 years and we can hear 'peer pressure' anywhere from teenage but definitely not about their parent or pastor or cell leader...we can state that quality time is one of the many factor that cause this outcome...quality time determined your relationship with one particular person, is common sense that we will only spend our time with the one we think is important to us, time is precious and i believe everyone know that...therefor to maintain a healthy and close relationship with one another, we need time of spending together...same concept apply to family as well...we can see that most of the family issues occur because they lack of time spending, or understanding each other...parent who busy on work or kids that hang out with their peers rather than parent cause this 'misunderstand' between each other...very often we hear people arguing said that "i thought you are like that" or something similar to that...we need time together therefore we have a better understanding with each other, a time of communication...